The plaintiff in an action for divorce or separate maintenance must, at the time the action is commenced, be a resident of this state, or be stationed in this state while a member of the armed services, and in order that each party be entitled to the entry of a decree or judgment of divorce or separate maintenance, that residence or military presence must be maintained until the decree is entered. The divorce may be filed in the county in which either spouse resides. The defendant has a legal right to have the case transferred to his or her county if desired. There is also a 60 day waiting period that must elapse after the date of filing before the divorce will be granted.

Grounds for Filing:
The Complaint for Divorce must declare the appropriate South Dakota grounds upon which the divorce is being sought. The appropriate lawful ground will be that which the parties agree upon and can substantiate, or that which the filing spouse desires to prove to the court. The divorce grounds are as follows:

Grounds for divorce.
Divorces may be granted for any of the following causes:

1. No-Fault: Irreconcilable differences.
2. Fault: (1) Adultery; 2) Extreme cruelty; (3) Willful desertion; (4) Willful neglect; (5) Habitual intemperance; (6) Conviction of felony;

Definitions

1. Extreme cruelty defined. Extreme cruelty is the infliction of grievous bodily injury or grievous mental suffering upon the other, by one party to the marriage.
2. Willful desertion defined–Special conditions applicable. Willful desertion is the voluntary separation of one of the married parties from the other with intent to desert.
3. Adultery defined. Adultery is the voluntary sexual intercourse of a married person with one of the opposite sex to whom he or she is not married.

Filing Spouse Title: Plaintiff. The Plaintiff is the spouse who initiates the filing procedure with the family law or domestic relations court.

Non-Filing Spouse Title: Defendant. The Defendant is the spouse who does not file the initial divorce papers, but rather receives them by service.

Court Name: State of South Dakota, County of __________, In the Circuit Court, __________ Judicial District. This is the South Dakota court where the divorce will be filed. The court will assign a case number and have jurisdictional rights to facilitate and grant the orders concerning, but not limited to: property and debt division, support, custody, and visitation. The name of the court is clearly represented at the top of all documents that are filed.

Primary Documents: Complaint for Divorce and Decree of Divorce.
These are the essential documents needed to start and finalize a divorce according to South Dakota law. There are anywhere from ten to twenty other documents that may be required throughout the filing process. A few other documents that are typically filed during the process are: Verification, Marital Settlement Agreement, Affidavit of Proof for Stipulated Judgment, Financial Affidavit, and Notice of Final Hearing.

Court Clerk’s Title: Office of the Clerk of the County Circuit Court.
The clerk or the clerk’s assistants will be the people managing your paperwork with the court. The clerk’s office will keep the parties and the lawyers informed throughout the process in regards to additional paperwork that is needed, further requirements, and hearing dates and times.

Child Custody: When minor children are involved in a divorce, the South Dakota courts will do everything possible to help lessen the emotional trauma the children may be experiencing. If the parents cannot come to an agreement regarding the issues involving the children, the court will establish the custody order at its discretion.

The court will award sole or joint custody based on the standards of what is in the best interests of the children. The court will consider the following; marital misconduct only if it is relevant to the further well being of the child; the child wishes depending on age and maturity; and the expressed desires of the parents. The court will not discriminate based on the parents gender.

Any agreement by the parties for visitation other than the standard guidelines shall be in writing, signed by both parties and filed with the court. The agreed plan shall be approved by court order and replace the standard guidelines or any plan previously filed.

Child Support: South Dakota child support guidelines are based on the Income Shares Model for calculating child support. The monthly support amount determined by applying the guidelines is divided proportionally according to each parent’s income. These two support amounts are then offset to establish which parent will pay the other parent for support of the child. All income is typically verified by examining past W-2′s and child support worksheets are available at the courthouse.

Child support is determined by the state guidelines, which is based primarily on the income of each parent. Income is defined as follows: (1) Compensation paid to an employee for personal services, whether salary, wages, commissions, bonus, or otherwise designated; (2) Self-employment income including gain, profit, or loss from a business, farm, or profession; (3) Periodic payments from pensions or retirement programs, including social security or veteran’s benefits, disability payments, or insurance contracts; (4) Interest, dividends, rentals, royalties, or other gain derived from investment of capital assets; (5) Gain or loss from the sale, trade, or conversion of capital assets; (6) Unemployment insurance benefits; (7) Worker’s compensation benefits; and (8) Benefits in lieu of compensation including military pay allowances.

If the income of the parents is derived from seasonal employment, or received in payments other than regular, recurring payments, such income shall be annualized to determine a monthly average income.

If a child’s needs are not being met through the income of the parents, assets shall be considered. If the parents have savings, life insurance or other assets in amounts unrelated to income, these holdings shall be considered. The parents’ ability to borrow may be used to determine financial ability.
Property Distribution:
Since South Dakota is an “equitable distribution” state, the marital property shall be divided in an equitable fashion. Equitable does not mean equal, but rather what is fair. The court will encourage the parties to reach a settlement on property and debt issues otherwise the court will declare the property award.

When a divorce is granted and the parties have not agreed otherwise, the courts may make an equitable division of the property belonging to either or both, whether the title to such property is in the name of the husband or the wife. In making such division of the property, the court shall have regard for equity and the circumstances of the parties.

Fault shall not be taken into account with regard to the awarding of property, except as it may be relevant to the acquisition of property during the marriage.

The courts will consider the following factors when making a property award upon divorce; the contribution each spouse had to the acquisition of the marital property; the value of each spouses separate property; the amount of time the spouse have been married; the age and health condition of each spouse; the current and future earning capacity of each spouse; and the value of the property being distribution as well as the income potential of that property.

Restoration or Name Change: Whenever a decree of divorce is granted, the trial court may, in its discretion or upon the application of either party by the terms of the decree, restore to the woman her maiden name or the name she legally bore prior to her marriage to the husband in the divorce suit.
Spousal Support: Not all cases involve support from one spouse to the other. The obligation of one spouse to support the other financially for a temporary or permanent basis is decided on a case-by-case basis as agreed to by the parties or at the court’s discretion.

Allowance for support when divorce granted. Where a divorce is granted, the court may compel one party to make such suitable allowance to the other party for support during the life of that other party or for a shorter period, as the court may deem just, having regard to the circumstances of the parties represented; and the court may from time to time modify its orders in these respects. The factors the court will consider when establishing a support award are as follows; the length of the marriage; the financial repercussions of each spouse; the financial resources of each spouse; the age of the spouses; the health condition of the spouses; and the marital fault that caused the divorce if any.

The department shall enforce the support obligation due to a spouse or former spouse who is living with his or her child, but only if a support obligation has been established for the spouse and the child support obligation is being enforced.

Counseling or Mediation Requirements: If it appears that there is a reasonable possibility of reconciliation, the court shall continue the proceeding for a period not to exceed thirty days. During the period of the continuance, the court may enter any order for the support and maintenance of the parties, the custody, support, maintenance, and education of the minor children of the marriage, attorney fees, and for the preservation of the property of the parties. At any time after the termination of the thirty-day period, either party may move for the dissolution of the marriage or a legal separation, and the court may enter its judgment decreeing the dissolution or separation.

State Abbreviation	SD
Statehood	November 2, 1889
State Capital	Pierre
Number of Counties	66
State Population (2005)	775,933
State Quarter Issue Date	November 6, 2006
State Flower	American pasqueflower
Nickname	Mount Rushmore State, Coyote State
State Flag
Area Codes	605
Top 5 Cities (2000 population)	Sioux Falls 123,975 Rapid City 59,607 Aberdeen 24,658 Watertpwm 20,237 Brookings 18,504
Major Sports Teams	None

In most states, child support obligations cease at 18 UNLESS the child is still in full-time education, in which case child support can be extended until the age of 19.

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Each state has unique grounds in which a dissolution of marriage may be granted by the court. When choosing the grounds for your dissolution of marriage, you should always remember that you must have sufficient proof to the court that your marital situation warrants a dissolution of marriage by the grounds you are requesting.

Grounds for Filing: The Petition for Dissolution of Marriage needs to declare the appropriate Minnesota grounds upon which the dissolution of marriage is being sought. The appropriate lawful ground will be that which the parties agree upon and can substantiate, or that which the filing spouse desires to prove to the court of law.

The dissolution of marriage grounds are as follows:

1. An irretrievable breakdown of the marriage relationship. An irretrievable breakdown of the marriage relationship is achieved by living separate and apart for at least 180 days or serious marital discord adversely affecting the attitude of the husband, wife, or both towards the marriage.

(Minnesota Statutes – Chapters: 518.06, 158.13)

Minnesota Divorce Laws & Child Support & Child Custody Laws

Custody must be decided when minor children are involved in a divorce. Physical custody is where the child actually lives, while legal custody is the right of both parents to make decisions regarding major events in the child’s life including religion and education. The spouses are encouraged to create a parenting plan that addresses visitation rights, including where the child will spend major holidays and special occasions, and how the parents intend to resolve disputes about the child. The court may have input on the parenting plan; it will consider these issues:

• the wishes of the parents and the child, if the child is old enough to voice their opinion
• the relationship already established between the child and parent, including who was the primary caregiver during the marriage
• the relationship with siblings and where they live
• the child’s adjustment to their home, school, and community
• the stability of the child’s current living situation and whether that should be continued, including if they live in the marital home
• the ability of the parents to show love and affection to the child
• cultural backgrounds
• and the willingness of the parent to encourage the child’s relationship with the other parent.

When considering joint custody, the court will determine if the parents are able to cooperate and settle disputes, if it is in the best interest of the child to have equal time with both parents, and any history of domestic abuse. In Minnesota, the court can require parenting classes at any time. Grandparents can be granted visitation rights when necessary if it is beneficial to the child.

Minnesota uses the percentage of income formula to calculate child support amounts. The incomes of both parents are combined and then the court calculates the percentage that each parent is responsible for. Adjustments are made for health insurance or child care costs.

Other factors including when determining child support include: all financial resources of both parents, including income, property, or investments; any debts of the parents, especially those that were acquired during the marriage to support the family; any special needs of the child that could be costly; a reasonable standard of living for the child; any other children the parents support; and which parent claims the child as a dependent on tax returns. Both parents may determine amounts to contribute to an education fund for the child’s future.

Alimony Guidelines.
The alimony order shall be in amounts and for periods of time, either temporary or permanent, as the court deems just, without regard to marital misconduct, and after considering all relevant factors including the following guidelines:

1. The financial resources of the party seeking alimony, including marital property apportioned to the party, and the party’s ability to meet needs independently, including the extent to which a provision for support of a child living with the party includes a sum for that party as custodian;

2. The time necessary to acquire sufficient education or training to enable the party seeking alimony to find appropriate employment, and the probability, given the party’s age and skills, of completing education or training and becoming fully or partially self-supporting;

3. The standard of living established during the marriage;

4. The duration of the marriage and, in the case of a homemaker, the length of absence from employment and the extent to which any education, skills, or experience have become outmoded and earning capacity has become permanently diminished;

5. The loss of earnings, seniority, retirement benefits, and other employment opportunities forgone by the spouse seeking alimony;

6. The age, and the physical and emotional condition of the spouse seeking alimony;

7. The ability of the spouse from whom alimony is sought to meet needs while meeting those of the spouse seeking alimony; and

8. The contribution of each party in the acquisition, preservation, depreciation, or appreciation in the amount or value of the marital property, as well as the contribution of a spouse as a homemaker or in furtherance of the other party’s employment or business.

State Abbreviation	MN
Statehood	May 11, 1858
State Capital	St. Paul
Number of Counties	87
State Population (2005)	5,132,799
State Quarter Issue Date	April 4, 2005
State Flower	Lady slipper
Nickname	North Star State, Gopher State, Land of 10,000 Lakes
State Flag
Area Codes	218, 320, 507, 612, 651, 763, 952
Top 5 Cities (2000 population)	Minneapolis 382,618 St. Paul 287,151 Duluth 86,918 Rochester 85,806 Bloomington 85,172
Major Sports Teams	MLB: Minnesota Twins NFL: Minnesota Vikings NBA: Minnesota Timberwolves NHL: Minnesota Wild



Alaska Alimony and Spousal Support Laws

Alaska does not favor the granting of alimony. Instead the courts prefer to grant lump sum payments or divide the assets to make up for imbalance during the divorce proceedings. This way, they prevent future litigation. Alaska courts will grant alimony in some situations.

Different Types of Spousal Support

• Temporary – alimony that is awarded prior to the final divorce, upon filing divorce papers.
• Short-Term – alimony that is awarded for a limited period of time, generally to rehabilitate the receiving party.
• Long-Term or Permanent – alimony awarded for an extended amount of time. This generally occurs only for long-term marriages where there is an imbalance of earning capacity and assets.

Who is Eligible for Alimony in Alaska

Parties who have been married and are seeking a divorce in Alaska may seek alimony. The court has discretion and will make decisions on a case-by-case basis.
Alaska Alimony Guidelines (Factors for Awarding Alimony)

Alaska courts will consider the following to determine eligibility for alimony:

• Length of marriage and standard of living during the marriage;
• Age and health of parties;
• Earning capacity, including education, training, skills, experience, absence from job market, and responsibility for children;
• Financial condition of parties; and
• Any other factors the court finds relevant.

Reasons for Termination or Modification of Alimony in Alaska

Any change in circumstances can be grounds for termination or modification under Alaska law. Remarriage or cohabitation are grounds for termination. The party who seeks modification must petition the court, filing the necessary paperwork and providing proof of changed circumstances.
Marital Fault in Alaska

Fault is not used as a factor in awarding alimony by Alaska courts. Alimony is meant to help one party recover financially after divorce. It can be awarded for a limited or indefinite amount of time, in a lump sum payment or in installments. It is possible to file a divorce based on fault of one party.

How Long Does Spousal Support Last in Alaska?

Spousal support lasts for as long as the court directs in Alaska. Termination or modification is available for long-term support due to changed circumstances at the discretion of the court.
Alaska Alimony Taxes

Court ordered alimony payments may be deducted by the paying party on federal income tax forms. Also, the payee must claim alimony payments as income.
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State Abbreviation	AK
Statehood	January 3, 1959
State Capital	Juneau
Number of Counties	27
State Population (2005)	2,779,154
State Quarter Issue Date	August 25, 2008
State Flower	Forget Me Not
Nickname	The Last Frontier
State Flag
Area Codes	907
Top 5 Cities (2000 population)	Anchorage 260,283 Juneau 30,711 Fairbanks 30,224 Sitka 8,835 Ketchikan 7,922
Major Sports Teams	None

What happens in a New York court when it comes to child support?
At court, a hearing will be held to decide how much you will have to pay for child support. You should bring your latest tax returns, W-2s, paycheck stubs, and everything else you have to show your current income. The judge or hearing examiner will use this information and other information presented by other parties to decide what you should pay for child support for your child.

What if I do not go to the court hearing?
If you do not appear in court at the time the court expects you to, the court can declare that you are the father of the child and order you to pay child support even if you are not there. If you are not there, the judge or hearing examiner will decide how much you have to pay for child support without knowing how much you really earn. The judge or hearing examiner will also determine how much you owe in past child support for the child without knowing how much money you made during that past period of time.

If you do not go to court and show the judge or hearing examiner your financial situation, the amount the court orders you to pay may be more than you think you can afford. Because you did not show up, the court based the order on what it thought you earned, or on the needs or standard of living of the child, whichever is greater. As far as the law is concerned, that is what you owe. If you do not pay what you owe, steps will be taken to collect the money from you. The court may also enter a warrant for your arrest. Remember: These steps will not be taken if you show up at court when you are supposed to, with all the documents you need to show what you earn.

What happens after the court hearing?
When the judge or hearing examiner signs the order of support, a copy will be mailed to you. The order of support will tell you the amount you have to pay, the date that payments must start, and where to send your payments.

If you have a job, the child support agency will send a notice to your employer who will deduct the amount you have to pay directly from your paycheck. This will save you the time and trouble of getting bank checks or money orders, and paying for stamps to mail your payments. Your employer will send the payments directly to the child support enforcement agency. The child support agency keeps track of how much you owe and how much you have paid. It is the child support agency’s job to see that you make payments regularly and on time and to take action if you do not pay.

If you do not have a job, or are self-employed, you will be provided billing coupons and information about where and when to mail your child support payments. Your child support order will also tell you that you must tell the child support agency if you have any change in your income or you change or lose your job. If you do not do this, you could fall behind with your payments and then have to pay not only the current support amount, but also an additional amount to make up the payments you missed. If you fall behind on your payments, the child support agency will take enforcement actions to collect what you owe.

How much will I have to pay for child support?
To make sure that the amount a person has to pay for child support is fair, the court uses a standard guideline to figure out what a person should pay based on how much they earn in a year. Remember: You will not be ordered to pay an amount that is unfair under the law.

Besides support payments, you may also owe support back to the time your child was born. You may also have to pay for your child’s child care costs, uninsured medical expenses, and education expenses. If health insurance is available for your child through your employer, you will also have to get health insurance coverage for your child, as long as the health insurance coverage is available at a reasonable cost and is accessible to your child.

The court uses a standard guideline to calculate what you will pay, based on your adjusted gross income and on the number of children involved. The court first determines your gross income, and then makes certain deductions (including Medicare, Social Security, and New York City or Yonkers tax) to establish your adjusted gross income. The court then multiplies the adjusted gross income by the standard guideline percentage for the number of children. These percentages are as follows:

* 17% for one child
* 25% for two children
* 29% for three children
* 31% for four children
* at least 35% for five or more children.

Then your share of child care, medical, and educational expenses is added to the income percentage amount. The combined amount, percentage of income plus share of expenses, is the basic child support amount.

For incomes over $130,000, the court determines whether or not to use the percentage guidelines and may consider other factors in setting the full child support payment.

The guideline was put in the law to make sure that the court establishes support amounts that people with similar income will pay, and is based on estimates of how much parents would contribute if the family lived together. The guideline was not meant to take as much money as possible from a person who has to pay support, and it is not based on what the person who has to pay thinks should be enough.

You have to pay child support even if you receive unemployment benefits, disability benefits, Social Security payments, or worker’s compensation payments.

After the court determines the amount you should pay for child support, the court then considers how much income you will have after child support is deducted. If your remaining income would be less than or equal to the federal poverty income guidelines, an order for a lower amount (for example $25 per month) may be issued. This amount may then go up when your income increases, after review by the court.

Also, if your income is less than or equal to the federal poverty income guideline, there is a limit on the amount of unpaid child support arrears that can be accrued (built up). The amount that you owe when you are at these income levels cannot build to more than $500.

If your child is receiving temporary or safety net assistance from social services, the first $200 of any current child support payment you make will be given to the person taking care of your child, in addition to the monthly temporary or safety net assistance grant.

What if I can’t pay my child support?
If there is a change in your income (for example, if you are laid off, or get a different job that pays less than you were earning before), or there are other circumstances that affect your ability to pay your child support, you should immediately file a petition for modification with the court. The petition for modification is filed with the court that originally issued the child support order.

After the petition for modification is filed, a hearing date will be set. At the hearing you will have to present information, including documents about your change in income or other changes, to the judge or hearing examiner. Based on the new information, the court may change your order. If it does, the change will go back to the date that you filed the petition. You will also get credit for whatever you have paid since then. That is why you should ask for a modification immediately when you have a change in income. It is also why you should keep paying as much as you can.

Remember that only the court can change the amount you owe. Until it does, under the law you still owe the amount of support in the original court order. If you do not keep paying that amount until it is changed, steps will be taken to collect that amount from you. If you cannot pay all that you are supposed to, you should keep paying as much as you can until the court changes the amount. The worst thing you can do is not pay anything at all.

Will the amount that I owe change?
The amount that you owe for child support may change over time based on cost of living adjustments and changes in the amount of money you earn.

Every two years the child support enforcement agency automatically reviews each child support case to determine whether the amount to be paid should be increased due to cost of living increases. If the cost of living has increased by more than ten percent since the order of support was made or last reviewed, your order amount will increase by the amount of increase in the cost of living. For example, if the cost of living increases by fifteen percent, your order amount will be increased by fifteen percent.

Please note that the child support enforcement agency can make these cost of living increases to your order amount without going to court. However, before any change goes into effect, you will receive a notice telling you of the change and what you need to do to challenge the change.

What if I move?
As long as you are under a court order for child support, you must notify the child support enforcement agency if you change your residential and/or mailing address, telephone number, Social Security number, or driver’s license number.

What happens if I do not pay what I am supposed to?
Your obligation to support your child begins when your child is born. If you do not start paying support when your child is born or do not pay what you owe for pregnancy or birth expenses, the amount you should have paid starts to add up. Even if you start paying later, you may still owe money from the time before you were paying. This is another reason why it is best to pay support right from the beginning.

The child support enforcement agency keeps track of the money you owe. Amounts you owe that you have not paid are called arrears. If you have arrears, the child support enforcement agency will take steps to collect that money. These steps can include taking your tax refund, lottery winnings, and your bank accounts; suspending your driver’s license; and notifying credit reporting agencies about your debt. If you do not pay support, you can also be sentenced to time in jail.

You will get a notice in the mail before any of these things happen. The notice will tell you exactly what you have to do to stop them from happening. For example, if you get a notice that your driver’s license is going to be suspended, you can keep your license by making an arrangement with the child support agency to pay what you owe.

If you have moved and have not notified the child support agency, you will not receive important notices mailed to you to keep you informed about actions that are taking place on your child support account. Thus, you will not have the opportunity to take steps to stop the actions from taking place. In order to ensure you receive important notices, you must keep your address information up to date.

If you try to avoid being found, the child support enforcement agency will use many ways to find you, even if you go to another state. All states have child support enforcement agencies, and they all work together to find people who are not paying child support. Once you are found, enforcement actions will begin to collect all the money you owe.

What about visitation and custody?
Visitation and custody issues are separate from child support. If there is a support order and the other parent or guardian does not allow you to visit the child, you still owe child support. If you are having problems with your visitation rights or you have physical custody of your child, but do not have court-ordered custody, you need to go to court to get a court order stating that you have legal custody or to establish or enforce visitation rights. In the meantime, you must still pay the amount of child support that you have been ordered.

How can I help my child and myself?
Being a parent brings many responsibilities. Being a parent will also be the hardest and most rewarding job you will ever have. In fact, the benefits, rewards, and memories of being a parent are limitless and will last a lifetime and beyond. By showing your child that you care enough to be there for them, both emotionally and financially, you are showing them your love and respect. You are also teaching them what it means to be a parent—a skill they may one day pass on to their children.

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State Abbreviation	NY
Statehood	July 26, 1788
State Capital	Albany
Number of Counties	62
State Population (2005)	19,254,630
State Quarter Issue Date	January 2, 2001
State Flower	Rose
Nickname	Empire State
State Flag
Area Codes	212, 315, 347, 516, 518, 585, 607, 631, 646, 716, 718, 845, 914, 917
Top 5 Cities (2000 population)	New York 8,008,278 Buffalo 292,648 Rochester 219,773 Yonkers 196,086 Syracuse 147,306
Major Sports Teams	MLB: New York Mets, New York Yankees NFL: Buffalo Bills NBA: New York Knicks NHL: New York Islanders, New York Rangers, Buffalo Sabres

Parents have a legal and moral duty to maintain, protect and educate their children. When parents live apart, the state has an interest in seeing to it that parents, not the public, provide for their children. This obligation continues while the child is a minor. Courts have a duty to set child support. Parents may not waive child support as a matter of public policy.

Since 1987, Oklahoma has had child support guidelines. The statutory guidelines determine the amounts of support that parents at particular family income levels are presumed to spend on their children. Child support calculated under the guidelines is presumed by law to be the correct amount of child support.

How do child support guidelines work in Oklahoma?

In Oklahoma, the first step is to determine each parent’s adjusted gross income and add the numbers together to arrive at combined gross monthly family income. Gross income can be calculated one of several ways, including:

• actual monthly income, or income equivalent to a forty-hour work week (overtime may or may not be included as the court deems equitable);
• average monthly income while employed during the previous three (3) years;
• minimum wage paid for a forty-hour work week, or;
• imputed monthly income for a person with comparable education, training and experience.

For the self-employed, gross income is defined as “gross receipts minus ordinary and necessary expenses required for self-employment or business operations.”

The Oklahoma Child Support Guideline Schedule is used to determine the parents’ base child support. The schedule is based on the combined income of both parents and the number of children in the household. Each parent’s percentage share of the combined gross monthly family income sets that parent’s percentage share of the base child support obligation. The parent who is not the primary custodian of the child generally becomes the “obligor,” and pays the primary custodian his or her share of the base support.

The actual medical and dental insurance premium for the child is allocated between the parents in the same proportion as their adjusted gross income and added to the base child support obligation.

Can you give me an example of how Oklahoma child support guidelines work?

Terry makes $2,000.00 per month. Chris Makes $3000.00 per month. They have 2 children. Chris’s employer provides health and dental insurance for the children. Dependent coverage costs Chris $100.00 per month. Terry is the primary residential custodian. Chris has the children for 100 overnight visits per year. Employment related child care costs Terry $500.00 per month.

The parents’ combined gross monthly income is $5,000.00. Terry makes 40% of that total, and Chris 60%. The base monthly obligation for 2 children at this income level according to the child support guideline schedule is $943.00. Chris, the non-custodian, is responsible for 60% of the base child support, or $565.80. Since Chris provides health and dental insurance, Chris is entitled to a credit for Terry’s 40% share of the cost, in this case, $40.00. Chris pays Terry, the primary custodian, Chris’s share of the base child support ($565.80) minus the credit for Terry’s share of health insurance costs ($40.00), for a total monthly obligation of $525.80.

In addition to the monthly obligation above, Chris is responsible for 60% of Terry’s employment related child care, or $300.00.

Chris’s total obligation to Terry for monthly child support and child care in this scenario is $825.80 per month.

Each case is different. Each variable presents the potential for disagreement. Your results will vary. You can calculate Oklahoma child support online (unofficially) at a site maintained by the Oklahoma Department of Human Services or at a privately maintained site dedicated to the Families In Transition program.

What is shared parenting and how does it affect child support?

The Oklahoma child support guidelines schedule presumes a “standard” time-sharing or visitation schedule in which the obligor parent exercises 70-90 overnight visits each year. “Shared parenting” in Oklahoma means that each parent has physical custody of a child overnight for more than one hundred twenty (120) nights each year. If the child support obligor exercises more than 120 overnight visits per year, the law presumes the obligor parent is spending more to care for the child. There is a complicated formula which adjusts child support depending on the additional number of overnight visits the obligor parent exercises. The more overnights, the greater the adjustment.

“Split custody” means that each parent has primary custody of one or more of the children. In split custody cases, separate computations are made for each parent and the amounts are offset against each other. The parent with the larger child support obligation pays the difference between the two amounts to the parent with the smaller child support obligation.

What happens if the parents’ income is “above the guidelines”?

The child support guideline schedule goes to $15,000 per month total combined income. For parents who make more than that, child support is computed using the maximum from the guideline schedule, and “an additional amount determined by the court.” The trial court considers three factors in setting support: (1) the child’s actual needs, (2) the parents’ ability to pay, and (3) the child’s prior standard of living. Base child support is still divided on a percentage of the parents’ combined income.

Courts have authorized different methods to providing support in high income cases. Some review of the specific needs of the child and assign child support on that basis. Others order support based on the top figure from the guideline chart, and further order direct payment of additional expenses such as private school or travel. Still others mechanically extrapolate additional support using income and support percentages from the top of the guideline chart.

It does not matter if the lower income parent receives an indirect benefit from child support. The benefit to the child is what the court considers. But there are limits to the benefits that may be accorded the children of even the wealthiest parents. This is described in one Oklahoma case as the “three pony rule,” that is, even if the parents can afford it, no child needs three ponies.

Can we agree on child support different from the guideline amount?

Yes, so long as it is in the child’s best interests. A Court may deviate from the child support indicated by the guidelines “if the amount of support so indicated is unjust, inequitable, unreasonable, or inappropriate under the circumstances, or not in the best interests of any child involved.” Both parties must be represented by counsel for an agreed deviation to be approved.

When does child support stop?

Any child in Oklahoma is entitled to support by his or her parents until the child reaches eighteen (18) years of age. If a child is still in high school, child support is paid until the child graduates or turns nineteen (19) years of age, whichever happens first. If you are paying support for more than one child, the child support does not drop automatically when one child no longer qualifies for support. You must take affirmative steps to recompute future support for the remaining child or children, and have the court enter a revised support order. When the last child no longer qualifies for child support, the support obligation ends if there is no past due support owed. An income assignment will continue in effect until the employer receives an order or notice amending or terminating the assignment.

Can child support be modified?

Yes. The court may modify or change a child support order whenever there is “a material change in circumstances.” Courts have held that a material change of circumstance can be an increase or decrease in the Obligor’s income, an increase or decrease in Obligee’s income, or a change in the needs of the child. Ordinarily a parent’s increased or decreased expenses due to, for example, remarriage, are not by themselves grounds for modifying child support. Child support is based on income, not expenses.

Child support may not be modified retroactively. Only future payments can be modified. If you think child support should be modified, sitting on your rights could cost you.

How do I know when the other parent’s income has changed significantly?

The Court may include an order requiring the parties to periodically exchange information for an informal review and adjustment process. Parents may also ask for the information by certified mail. On or after April 15th of each year, either parent may ask the other parent in writing to provide their previous tax year W -2 forms, 1099 form, or other wage and tax information. Failure to provide the information may result in an award of attorneys fees in the event a motion to modify child support is filed.

Who gets the income tax dependency exemptions?

Federal tax laws presume that the custodial parent is entitled to the federal income tax exemptions.

If the non-custodial parent takes the exemption, the custodial parent must sign a release of the dependency exemption to the non-custodial parent, IRS Form 8332. Oklahoma courts have the authority to allocate exemptions between custodial and non-custodial parents. The custodial parents can be ordered to release the dependency exemption.

The exemption for children may also be awarded to each parent in alternating years.

Is child support different in a Terryernity case?

Child support in a Terryernity case may be set prospectively. In addition, it may be set retroactively for up to five years before the Terryernity action is filed. A person legally determined to be the father of a child also may have to pay some or all of the costs of the birth. An action to establish Terryernity and support can be brought any time before the child reaches the age of eighteen (18).

How is child support collected?

Since 1994, all child support in Oklahoma is supposed to be collected by income assignment. An order/notice to withhold income for child support directs the obligor’s employer to pay a portion of the obligor’s earnings for child support. The withheld earnings are directed to a Centralized Support Registry operated in Oklahoma by the Department of Human Services. The Registry records the support payment and forwards it to the obligee parent. The record of payments maintained by the Centralized Support Registry becomes an official record of child support payments made.

An income assignment treats child support as a deduction from the gross earnings of the obligor parent. It is not a garnishment. It is more like the deductions for federal taxes, state taxes, social security or health insurance. An employer may not discipline, suspend, discharge, or refuse to promote a parent who owes child support because of an income assignment. An employer may be penalized for failure to honor an income assignment.

Parents can agree to pay and receive child support using alternate arrangements instead of an income assignment. Alternate arrangements are subject to court approval. Absent an agreement between the parties, a court will have to find just cause not to enter an immediate income assignment when entering a child support order.

Income assignment is a useful tool for both parents to make payment of child support a simple and transparent process.

How is payment of child support enforced?

Most court-ordered child support is owed until it is paid in full. All current court-ordered child support payments become judgments on the date they are due. All child support payments since late 1991 do not expire until they are paid. The primary tools for private attorneys to collect past due child support (in addition to other means available to collect any judgment) are contempt of court and license revocation.

Contempt of Court. The obligee parent may apply to the court for a citation against the obligor parent alleging contempt of court for failure to pay child support. To be found guilty of contempt, there must be:

• an existing order for support, reduced to writing and filed in the court file;
• knowledge of the order by the obligor, and
• a willful failure to pay as required by the order.

A finding that an obligor is guilty of contempt of court carries a penalty of up to six months in jail, and a fine of up to Five Hundred Dollars ($500.00) per violation. The purpose of the jail sentence and fine is not to punish the non-paying parent, but to coerce compliance with the court orders. Courts will encourage and allow parents owing support to “purge” themselves of contempt. They do this by paying their past due support obligation in a lump sum, or in installments when the court finds it appropriate.

License Revocation. License revocation is a useful tool when the Obligor’s occuTerryion or hobby requires a state license. Bartenders, electricians, plumbers, real estate agents, truck drivers and welders are just a few of the hundreds of professions that require a state license to work. A state license is required to hunt, fish, drive a car or boat, carry a concealed weapon, or engage in many other recreational pursuits. There are approximately 300 such licenses issued by the State of Oklahoma. A court may, upon application, order revocation of all licenses held by a parent in arrears for child support. The threat of losing your driver’s license alone is usually enough to coerce compliance with a child support order, and to make payment arrangements to satisfy arrears.

State Divorce Laws: Colorado

Child support cases in Colorado are enforced by the Colorado Child Support Enforcement Program . The mission of the CCSEP is to assure that all children receive financial and medical support from each parent. This is accomplished by

1. Locating each parent,
2. Establishing paternity and support obligations, and
3. Enforcing those obligations

In order to apply for child support in the state of Colorado, you must contact your local county Child Support Enforcement (CSE) office to find out what they will require. You will need to fill out an application which can be obtained from your local office, or online at: Child Support Enforcement Services

How Is Child Support Established in Colorado?

Child support orders are established using the Colorado Child Support Laws detailed in Legal Authority, Section 14-10-115, C.R.S. A child support order is created via a legal process in which the monthly amount of child support to be paid by the non-custodial parent or by both parents is designated. This court order is established using the Colorado Child Support Guidelines, which takes into account factors such as:

1. Financial needs of the children
2. Financial status of both parents

The Colorado Child Support Enforcement Program also requires that child support orders establish health insurance coverage for the children, as determined by the court. Medicaid is considered public assistance and is secondary to private health coverage plans. If the children are on Medicaid, the parent ordered to supply health coverage is still held responsible to provide additional health coverage.

How Is Colorado Child Support Calculated?

Colorado child support laws are calculated using the monthly gross incomes of both parents and general information about what other families in Colorado spend on their children. The financial amount of the child support order is based upon the non-custodial parent’s share of the obligation. The amount of child support a parent is required to pay is also affected by the amount of visitation with the child. Both parents must also share costs for childcare, medical insurance and uninsured medical expenses. Again, the share required from each parent is determined by the financial needs of the children and the financial status of each parent.

How Are Child Support Orders Enforced in Colorado?

The Colorado laws and the CSE office can use a variety of methods to ensure that child support orders are satisfied. These include

1. Withholding from employment wages, unemployment compensation benefits, or worker’s compensation benefits;
2. Suspension of driver’s license or professional/recreational licenses
3. Federal and state tax offsets
4. Credit bureau reporting
5. New hire reporting
6. Judicial actions such as judgments, liens, garnishments, or federal prosecution

Child Support Payments

The state of Colorado maintains a centralized collection and disbursement office called the Family Support Registry (FSR). Child support payments can be submitted to the FSR office via mail, phone, or automatic withdrawal.

Alabama Child Custody Law Information

Custody laws are state laws, not federal laws, so each state has different custody and support laws. Under Alabama law, parents have an equal right to the custody of their children at the time of their divorce. The Court then considers the best interests of the children in determining where they should live after the divorce. There are many factors that go into this determination, such as

• the age and sex of each child
• the emotional, social, and educational needs of each child,
• the home environments offered by each parent,
• character and stability of each parent
• ability to provide for the emotional, social, moral, material and educational needs of the children, and
• any other relevant factors the evidence may present.

Alabama Child Support Information

Child support in Alabama views both parents as being legally obligated to provide care for their children and is founded on the premise that children should continue to receive the same level of support that would have been available to them had the family unit remained intact.  Child support is determined under the Alabama Child Support Guidelines, unless the Court finds grounds to deviate from the Guidelines. The major factors considered are:

1. How much you earn
2. How much your ex spouse earns
3. How many children you have; and
4. What percentage of time the children are under each parent’s care and control

Following are the Texas laws governing child custody and support.

Texas Child Custody:

Texas courts try to do everything possible to decrease the emotional impact on children whose parents are divorcing. The courts encourage the parents to work out a plan BUT Again NOT easy – NOT cheap. If the parents cannot agree on a custody plan, the court will use its own discretion to establish a custody order that will always be based on the best interest of the child or children. The court will also consider:

1. The health, welfare and safety of the child(ren);
2. Any history of neglect, sexual abuse, or sexual assault by a parent;
3. Any history of family violence.

A child over 12 may file a document with the court asking to have custody given to a person chosen by that child.

Texas Child Support:

Texas courts use something called the Percentage of Income formula to calculate how much a parent must provide for support of the child or children. The court requires a parent to pay a certain percentage of his or her income for child support. The percentage is based on the number of children. For example, a non-custodial parent with one child might be required to pay 20% of his or her net income as child support. In some situations both parents may be required to pay support.

It is important to understand that each state has deviations from the guideline child support. In many states where the timeshare or percentage of time with the children is not included within the guideline, joint custody can be a deviation from guideline support. In simple terms, a deviation allows the court to reduce child support. Therefore, in most states, joint child custody will significantly reduce your child support obligation.

Secret Divorce teaches techniques to reduce your child support and alimony. It is imperative that you understand your state’s guideline and that you plan early to reduce your child support and alimony.