The simple answer is no. Hiding money is usually detectable with a decent forensic accountant. Therefore, if you hide money you run the risk of getting caught and making the court question of your integrity and veracity.

To many men this advice does not concern them. But it should concern you. In all states, the court has significant discretion to determine support issues, division of assets, and attorneys fees. Rest assured that if the court learns that you have hidden assets that you will end up with the short end of the stick on each and every issue before the court.

Secret Divorce teaches you how men get caught hiding assets in a divorce. Review this trick and the hundreds of others while you plan for your divorce.

The name Secret Divorce derives from our advice to secretly plan for your divorce while still married. When still married, we advise you to learn about the law and how it will affect your case. We suggest that you establish a status quo which allows you to pay a reduced amount of child support and alimony and get the child custody orders that you want. Finally, Secret Divorce allows you to protect your assets.

Why Plan for Divorce Secretly?
If your wife learns of your intent to divorce, she will most likely run to the closest attorney and immediately file for divorce. It is also possible that your wife may attempt to obtain domestic violence restraining orders against you to evict you from your home and keep you away from your children. You need to keep your divorce plans secret until you have executed the tricks and techniques that you learn from Secret Divorce. Don’t get caught in the divorce process unprepared.

Women all over the country are obtaining domestic violence restraining orders at record numbers. Why? Domestic violence restraining orders are no longer only for men that actually beat their wives. Domestic violence laws continue to become more and more liberal. In California, destroying property is now considered domestic violence. For instance, if a husband gets angry and rips up a photo- domestic violence!

Why do women want domestic violence restraining orders? Simple: a quick and easy way to get their husband out of the house, gain full custody of the kids without Dad even getting visitation, and huge support payments from a sympathetic judge.

When a wife asks an attorney how she can get her husband out of the house, the attorney’s next question is about domestic violence. Do you get the picture? Do not become another statistic. Secret Divorce teaches men how to protect themselves from false domestic violence allegations while planning a successful divorce.

Many men ask, what, if anything they should tell their children about their pending divorce. Children should not be burdened by the issues in your divorce. Speaking to your children about your divorce or your wife in a negative light usually backfires.

Courts do not appreciate involving the children in these adult issues. Children should be informed that both Mom and Dad love them and will always be there for them. They should also be informed about a pending divorce with Mom and Dad both present. Often books are helpful for children to understand that divorce will not affect their relationship with each parent. Dinosaur’s Divorce is one such book.

Calendars specifically marking days that the children will see both parents is also helpful for children facing a changing schedule. Children need to be reassured that they will be able to maintain their relationship with both parents.

There are many competent document preparation companies out there.  However, these companies do not provide legal advice and cannot advise you of your rights.  For example, many men seek to modify their child support and alimony and have a document preparation company prepare the paperwork for them.  Often these men are outraged when their child support and alimony are actually increased!  The document preparation companies fail to provide the necessary legal advice to ensure that you do not shoot yourself in the foot at court.  Consult with an attorney regarding the law and your rights in a divorce.

There are many angry divorced men out there.  Why are they so angry?  Each man will give you a different song and dance, but basically they each believe that the system is unfair and biased.  That may be somewhat true, but if you look at each and every one of these stories, you will see a common theme.  In general, men do not prepare for divorce.  Most men are a deer in the headlights when they are served divorce papers.  (Yes, 85% of divorces are filed by women.)  Many men “check out” of their marriage– using the garage as the living room, having an affair, or working excessively. Often these men do not even know a divorce is  coming.  Women on the other hand, prepare for divorce.  They learn the law and seek to take advantage of each caveat of the law.  Therefore, by the time a man is served, he is generally out of the race.

Men should plan early for divorce

What can a man do to ensure that he does not become the next statistic?  Educate yourself regarding the law and prepare for divorce with a viable plan.  Consider purchasing SecretDivorce to assist you in planning for divorce.  Use the tricks and techniques of experts to ensure that you execute your plan.  Do not count on a lawyer to make your case.  As you will learn with SecretDivorce, you will be required to make changes in your life prior to telling your Wife you wish to divorce. SecretDivorce techniques reduce child support and alimony payments, increase your child custody, and protect assets. Do not become another angry man because you failed to prepare.  

Generally, it does not matter which parties files first in divorce court.  That being said, it is important which party is most prepared for the divorce process at the time of filing.  In most states, the filing of a summons and complaint in divorce court will put in place automatic restraining orders which shall prevent insurance policies from being canceled and property from being transferred. Additionally, the court will often look at the status quo of the parties’ income, lifestyle, and time spent with children at the time of the filing to put temporary orders in place.  Therefore, it does not matter which party files the initial divorce papers, but only that you are prepared at the time your spouse files.