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Recent studies suggest that 40% of women withhold children from their father during a divorce. If this situation occurs, it is important that you confront it immediately. If you do not document the problem, your wife will argue that you did not want or attempt to visit with your kids.

If you do not have a custody order, obtain a temporary order immedatiely. Once you have a custody order, you must enforce it. Enforcement may require police enforcement for pick up of your children, reporting violations of court orders to law enforcement, and contempt actions.

It is important to document all communication with your wife. If your wife is bad mouthing you to the children and they are telling you things that their mother has said, it is imperative to take them to a counselor to allow them to deal with the conflict and allow their voices are documented.

Consult with an attorney regarding your matter. It may be possible to obtain full custody if you can show that your wife continually withholds the children from you and that you would be the parent better able to share the children.

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This is a common question that men ask. Simply, the answer is: possibly.

If you are in a community property state, all property acquired during marriage is community property and each spouse owns a one-half interest in all such property. Therefore, your wife will have an interest in your retirement if it was earned during the marriage. Of course, you can choose to negotiate with other assets and for example, give your wife the equity in the house and keep your retirement.

In an equitable distribution state, all property acquired during the marriage is marital property and will be divided equitably by the court. Therefore, the court has the authority to divide your retirement or to assign other assets to your wife and allow you to maintain your retirement.

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Secret Divorce has just added their Forums online. Previously the Secret Divorce Forums were only accessible to Secret Divorce Members. Commencing February 17, 2006, the Forums are now accessible to all internet users.

The Secret Divorce Forums provide men insight into the Secret Divorce tricks and techniques and provide real life examples from men who have planned well and successfully divorced. The Secret Divorce Forums have categories regarding child custody, protecting assets, as well as child support and alimony. The Forums allow men considering divorce excellent advice from real life experience of others.

It is essential that men considering divorce educate themselves and prepare for divorce early. The Secret Divorce Forums create a community of men all of whom have recently considered or been involved in a divorce to bounce idea off of each other and provide one another support and guidance.

Is there a universal child support and alimony calculator? Simply, the answer is no. The federal government requires that all states have child support guidelines. Many states use computer programs which we call calculators. If your state does not have a calculator, there is a formula which is set forth in your state’s guideline. Some states also include alimony or spousal support in the calculators.

It is important to understand that each state has deviations from the guideline child support. In many states where the timeshare or percentage of time with the children is not included within the guideline, joint custody can be a deviation from guideline support. In simple terms, a deviation allows the court to reduce child support. Therefore, in most states, joint child custody will significantly reduce your child support obligation.

Secret Divorce teaches techniques to reduce your child support and alimony. It is imperative that you understand your state’s guideline and that you plan early to reduce your child support and alimony.

The simple answer is yes. Secret Divorce teaches you how to prevent you wife from retaining the most aggressive divorce attorney in town. Ensuring that your spouse does not retain the most litigious attorney in your area may allow you to settle your case prior to going to trial or at least narrow the issues in your matter- both significantly reducing your attorneys fees by thousands of dollars. Don’t be caught off guard: Educate yourself and plan for a successful divorce today.

60% of men - and 40% of women will have at least one extramarital affair.

The 1987 Shere Hite’s survey of women found that 70% of women married five years or more had had an extramarital affair.

The 1980 Hite Report on Male Sexuality found that 72% of men married two years or more had had an extramarital affair.

Approximately 15% of women and 25% of men have more than four affairs during their married lives.

Fewer than 10% of people having affairs divorce their spouse and marry their lover (of which 75% of these marriages end in divorce).

Affairs, infidelity, cheating, being unfaithful, no matter what you call it, nobody wants to be on the ignorant end. Affairs are not the top reason for divorce but they are the worst reason. This is compounded by the fact that not only do you have to come to terms with the fact that your wife was cheating, you will probably now have to keep her in the lifestyle to which she has become accustomed.

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In a recent study, five years after divorce, after most men and women have remarried, women’s household incomes increased more from pre-divorce levels than those of their ex-husbands.

In ‘Seven Myths of Divorce’, by Dr Peter Orli states that generally, women are more satisfied with their divorce settlements than men, and this satisfaction remains stable over time.

…no wonder over 70% of divorces are initiated by the women.

Your future income could be lost to huge alimony and child support payments and when divorce papers hit you it’s too late to change the outcome.

If you are a father, how would you feel about being provided the times and dates of when you can visit with your child.

Consider Child Custody, Alimony (spousal support), Child Support, and loss of your assets to your wife before you file for divorce. Secret divorce preparation for men will allow you to sleep at night.

Fathers often ask us if they can gain joint custody of their kids in a divorce. The answer is simple: Did you jointly share in the care of your children and can you prove it?

Child custody laws vary from state to state, but always are based on the same principles. Basically the principles are that children should have contact with both parents and that contact should be as consistent as possible. Of course there are times when contact with both parents is not appropriate such as when drugs or abuse are involved.

Therefore, the status quo of the parties prior to a divorce is extremely important. Secret Divorce not only teaches you how to establish a beneficial status quo, but what steps you can take to obtain evidence to prove the status quo immediately prior to your divorce. Protect your relationship with your children by learning the law and following the tricks and techniques provided by Secret Divorce.

The name Secret Divorce derives from our advice to secretly plan for your divorce while still married. When still married, we advise you to learn about the law and how it will affect your case. We suggest that you establish a status quo which allows you to pay a reduced amount of child support and alimony and get the child custody orders that you want. Finally, Secret Divorce allows you to protect your assets.

Why Plan for Divorce Secretly?
If your wife learns of your intent to divorce, she will most likely run to the closest attorney and immediately file for divorce. It is also possible that your wife may attempt to obtain domestic violence restraining orders against you to evict you from your home and keep you away from your children. You need to keep your divorce plans secret until you have executed the tricks and techniques that you learn from Secret Divorce. Don’t get caught in the divorce process unprepared.

Women all over the country are obtaining domestic violence restraining orders at record numbers. Why? Domestic violence restraining orders are no longer only for men that actually beat their wives. Domestic violence laws continue to become more and more liberal. In California, destroying property is now considered domestic violence. For instance, if a husband gets angry and rips up a photo- domestic violence!

Why do women want domestic violence restraining orders? Simple: a quick and easy way to get their husband out of the house, gain full custody of the kids without Dad even getting visitation, and huge support payments from a sympathetic judge.

When a wife asks an attorney how she can get her husband out of the house, the attorney’s next question is about domestic violence. Do you get the picture? Do not become another statistic. Secret Divorce teaches men how to protect themselves from false domestic violence allegations while planning a successful divorce.